"So You Think You're GREAT @ Love?

The ordinary will say the same be the best at everything by loving yourself. That's nice, but can you teach me how? Here's some of the most ruthless, sugar-free approaches - so few talk about, and fewer know about - that can turn even the biggest hardship into amazingness, and you into the master of social intercourse. By Rheena Silver and Alexandra Potora

How many women have the power to make you feel ugly? Ok, maybe not ugly, insecure?
Be honest - you're getting a little bit jealous, and that's ok; they're always polished, always fashionable, and with a confidence that's chasing yours out of town, like a squint from a Tommy Lee concert. They have the weight you want, the skin the way you'd like yours to be, the big hair, and moreover, the attitude and sexuality you thrive to carry. They're on TV, on magazine covers, at the store next to the hunkiest guy, among your friends maybe, and here you are feeling like you're just not good enough because you didn't wake up this morning looking like a rock star.  does that frustrate you? Ahhh..what would it take to feel better?

- - - Think About It - - -
This Ain't a Confessional Lady  don't feel bad for feeling this way. Acknowledge it, embrace it, read more and change it.

If there was one place that could, and would give you the confidence you need and when you need it, then THIS IS IT! This is the place that'll do it for you, and here's your challenge: READ HOW!

You're about to learn something new, that has the power to change the outcome of your life. 

If you're wondering how does this woman (that makes YOU feel less of a woman) do the same things that you do YET she does them so much better, then STOP right now. Seriously, look at yourself in the mirror and shout "Stop". Silence the voice within, and get it quiet into submission. It's not her height or her weight  you're convinced it is, but it's not. It's not her past, her present, or anything physical that she's done, or will do differently in the future - what separates her from you  is her THOUGHT PROCESS.

Listen very carefully beautiful. You could spend a whole bunch of the green stuff on beauticians, stylists, clothes, diets, trainers and shrinks,  if you want to be sugarcoated, then go ahead and continue to spend that money , but all that isn't going to do you much good, because inside, you're not constantly at your strongest self, to make YOU fall in love with YOUrself, let alone have others fall in love with all of YOU. Ask yourself: How many times do you get SO excited to finally have both the money and the time to go to a salon? You think that once you'll have those beautiful locks you'll feel sexier and happier, so you do it - you drive there, you spend the money, the hours, go back home and then what? Sadly, often you don't feel that much more than you did when you first walked out that front door.

Why is that, and why do you think you feel that way?

Self-esteem is not a bunch of mumbo-jumbo. It is the one and only way to separate you from the pack and turn you from the woman thinking life is not fair enough, to the woman living the life of her dreams, inside and out.

People say love yourself by getting rid of your fear, alienating all your negative thoughts, visualizing, attracting one thing or another, blah, blah in order to live the life of your dreams; but when it comes down to the 1-2-3 step-by-step (teach me how to do it) ideas, the advice is often general and impersonal. Do you have $250 a week to pay a life coach for personalized help? How many people have that nowadays, anyway?

In the next 6 minutes you'll learn how easy it is to understand this concept and master it, achieve a doubling in your dose of self-esteem and more than anything, reap unparallel life-changing results.

Our purpose with FLY is for you to feel like the amazing being you're meant to feel like; to love yourself like nobody has ever loved you before, and to give you all the know-how's that will shape your own Universe. This website has been created for one purpose, and one purpose only - YOU. It's great to say FLY's applications are revolutionary from both personal development and technological stand points, but they were not designed for bragging rights. Everything that FLY does has been created with you in mind. Everything that FLY IS and everything that FLY represents is for YOU; is for YOUR piece of mind; it's for YOUR well being and ultimately, it's for the life of YOUR dreams.

Here are just a few things you'll learn by reading this:

Why so many women are missing confidence and self-esteem, and fail to gain love, respect and healthy relationships.

 How you can morph away from the same-old impersonalized & generic advice (as not all women are the same. Never have, and never will be!).

 HOW TO apply tangible techniques in your daily life that will boost your self-confidence and self-love  yes, we dare to say tangible. Love and become the best at social intercourse.

Start with this:

ACCEPT THAT FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF ENTIRELY DICTATES THE COURSE OF YOUR MENTAL, PHYSICAL, AND SPIRITUAL WELLBEING as well as THE WELLBEING OF ALL YOUR RELATIONSHIPS.

As a woman, you give so much of yourself - TO EVERYBODY. You are affectionate, a nurturer - you give, and give, and many times people just take and keep on taking. You give yourself into all the relationships you are a part of, and how many times you prioritize everybody else but YOU. Ask yourself: How often do you not care as much about yourself, as you care for everybody else you love? You feel you love them so much you choose to put yourself second, and not care about YOU?

YOU  this Supreme Being, with a supreme purpose, designed - by God, nature, the Universe, or whomever you believe created you to give life, to nurture life, and to enhance the standards of life. Caring so much about others to forget about you is such a selfless act, but like any act  it can turn selfish. Why? Because you can never give to others the best of you, until you give that to yourself. Not giving to YOU, will drain you of the power you need to give to others, and it will keep the world away from seeing how amazing you really are.

This is the incredible opportunity for you to become whatever makes you the happiest. 25, 31, 40, 55  who cares what your age is? Nobody cares as much as you do, and the truth is that you're never too young or two old to love yourself and take your life to new heights. The first step, is giving something of quality back to you by reading this article and believing that you can be IT, the super-FLY woman. Loving yourself is a technique, a state of mind, a habit. There is a science to it, and with all our Iove, we put that science together for you - all you need to do is follow the steps. If you do so, you WILL change your state of mind, your life, and your wellbeing. Do not speed read through this like you would news headlines if you open your mind and your heart and choose to listen, there is no room for failing. It works, and you can count on it like you can count on the sun rising every morning.

LET's GET GOING:

Enough With All These Naysayers  cut them all off!
 ... and if not from your life, then cut them from your sound board - PRACTICE MINDFULNESS.

The two main ideas FLY was built upon are:

1. Teaching HOW TO be present  it will crystallize the unrestricted love you have for yourself, and introduce the reality of unlimited potential.
2. Applying motivating stimuli on a daily basis, so there's no room for discouragement and uncertainty in your growth process. You will never forget what you're learning, and you will never lose sight of yourself and what you want to become. It works, and you will succeed!

MYTH: My state of mind is the end result of life and its (sometimes) unfortunate circumstances. WRONG!

The power words have, is unquestionable  words are our emotional and rational currency.

With that in mind, in the world of today  which is pretty loud, crowded and chaotic the 21st Century women are so overwhelmed with driving their careers, keeping friends and family happy, finding a mate, planning weddings and vacations, getting pregnant, raising children, etc., to where they're often left vulnerable, and involuntarily allow others to strip them of their power.

Grasp on this: each time you get upset from what somebody (else) said or did, you ALLOW that person to TAKE POWER AWAY FROM YOU. You are willingly allowing yourself to be handicapped, and through you allowing that, a whole chain of unfortunate feelings will trickle on down.

Ask yourself: How many times do you start your day on a happy note  you actually found something in the closet to wear that's fabulous, your hair looks particularly good this morning, and you even dare to get ready and go out in the world with a smile on your face. You feel good, and then life (or something like it) happens. Your partner is grumpy, your kids are acting up, somebody cuts you off on the freeway; you spill your coffee, or hear something that somebody else said about you, etc.

That just killed your smile, didn't it? Right. Something happened; somebody said or did something that smudged that smile away from your face.

Know this: NOBODY can tell you what to feel. NOBODY can tell you how and when to feel it. NO PERSON in this world should EVER have more control over you than you have over your own self. BE PRESENT! Stop trying to change or relive the past, or somehow interpret the future  live in the now, and choose how to react when somebody frustrates you. Choose how to react, choose how to feel, and choose what your predominant thoughts will be after that. Here's a thought:

*** I really like the method of deep-breathing 5 times when you are in that decision-making moment. Train yourself to do that first, before ever answering or reacting while upset, rushed, or unsure of what you want to say. Remember that living in the now, means that you do not have to react instantaneously, so fortunately you have the luxury of using a couple of minutes to choose how you'll react. Use that time wisely - that's what guys do, and that's why they're called the more logical party. There is so much knowledge on how to be present that all the women I work with learn, and in their own words their lives have entirely changed. ***

TAKE THIS TO HEART: the reason both men and women lack confidence and self esteem is because they've allowed others to rob them of it. Again - be here, today, right in this moment, and CHOOSE how to feel, and chose who has power over you.

Here's Why You Should Listen To This Bay, Bay, Bay

You would think that since there's an overwhelming abundance of books, magazines, TV shows, talk shows, articles on the web, and overall fuss about this topic of finding and maximizing your life at all its potential, then awe. You don't need to look any further. This just simply isn't true. While there is so much advice out there on life, love, sex, relationships, and everything else in between, there's only a small handful of practical, personalized and unexpired advice.

Browsing the Internet and shuffling through the cable channels like we do, you'll come to realize (if you haven't already) how much of the same advice is out there, simply regurgitated. To top it off, so much of this advice is very old.

Advice (as food for thought), has a short shelf life, so a quick expiration date is in the rearview mirror. Today we read so much of the same advice, given 4-5 years ago. Why??
We know how quickly we change and evolve, we know that not all women are the same, so why continue holding on to same old-school ideas and theories of evolution?

FLY has created the most ingenious monthly program. Please remember: this is revolutionary; you've never heard of this up until this point, you've never tried this before, and you will never be the same after getting your FLY on! Everything is strategic, and you will realize how every day FLY empowers you, motivates you, teaches you how to develop yourself and your relationships, works the steps one-by-one in great length for you only to follow, rewards you, entertains you, and houses your emotions.

This abundance of information is in fact a blessing in disguise.  I say this, as you can choose what to listen, and most importantly who to listen to. Here are some ideas to help you in your selection process:

*** Find your topics of interest, and what are your personal BUZZ words associated with them. Could it be relationships - how to better communicate with my partner; feelings  how to control my emotions; career - how to work with men; health - motivation to diet; beauty - how to be sexier; sex - giving the best blowjob; and so on...

After you've figured out what your interests are, select the top 10 avenues of advice that most appeal to you and filter them carefully by ask yourself these questions: how easy it is to navigate through the information; does any of the content appeal to me and my circumstances; am I learning something I didn't already know yesterday; does this give me applicable 1-2-3 steps on how to incorporate new techniques in my routine; does the advice come from a reliable source;? Do I like these people enough to trust them? Ultimately, choose the source most personalized and with the most access to information  available when YOU need it and when YOU want it. ****

So You Want Your Lessons  How Will You Remember When To Use Them?

Now that we've touched on the abundance of circulating advice, here is the unforgiving reality - and MAKE NO MISTAKE as this can exponentially change your life: piling up the self-help books, watching Oprah, or listening to CDs teaching you how to master the Laws of the Universe are ONLY accessories. Fabulous party favors, but designed only to accompany you in your transition to excellence and abundance. These are tools designed to make the road to growth easier for you, but not to do the work on your behalf.

Ask yourself: How often do you watch Dr. Ruth, or read an empowering book and feel really pumped up, really energized, and ready to take over the world? You are inspired, you feel so much stronger, you start your new lifestyle, but 2 weeks later you are back in the grunt you wanted to get away from when you first started.

There's nothing wrong with you! Going through this does not make you less powerful or less ambitious than somebody else. It does not mean that things won't change, and it certainly doesn't mean that you are worth less.

Happiness, Love, Sex, Relationships, Success, Money, Legacy wow, not just words, but STATEMENTS! Statements of our desire to not walk this Earth in the search of mediocrity; we don't want the average thought of "I always dreamed of a beautiful house on the beach, but I am alright living in this hut made of cow dump and sticks"; we don't want the average lover "Oh, he's really sweet when he's not calling me stupid". YOU don't want the leftovers of this Universe - YOU want to be happy  YOU want to smile, and put your soul at ease; YOU want to be respected and appreciated. YOU want to have the luxury of spending money, and moreover, spending the rest of your live with somebody that will not only love you unconditionally, but appreciate you for who YOU are. And you should never expect anything less than what you want  these are your standards.

"If you paid attention"

The single most important ingredient, the most powerful wordsmith of all is YOU. The privileged few that have mastered their wellbeing, the experts choosing their emotions, dictating their state of mind rather than being dictated to, have single handedly accomplished their status and gained their riches by never losing sight of themselves and hope that somebody else can fix their problems.

These masterminds have figured it out  the only thing that YOU (and only you) will ever have the power to control over, is your own life and nobody else's. The biggest and the most important key will NEVER be a show, or a book, or a purse, but the love you have for yourself.

Let me as you a question: Do you know what are the top five things in life that you'd like to accomplish but haven't been able to yet? And once you figure them out, can you think of why you haven't accomplished them already? Take a moment to think about it.

How would it feel to not give yourself away into the imageries others have expected of you?
How would it feel not having to justify who you are and why you want things?
How would it feel to wake up in the morning every day and absolutely love the woman staring in the mirror?
How would it feel setting life standards for yourself that you know you will reach, and be comfortable in reaching?

Imagine that ! How would your life be like? How would having that make you feel?

Earlier, I said this:
ACCEPT THAT FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOURSELF ENTIRELY DICTATES THE COURSE OF YOUR MENTAL, PHYSICAL, AND SPIRITUAL WELLBEING as well as THE WELLBEING OF ALL YOUR RELATIONSHIPS.

It is the truth and it had NEVER failed.

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