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Although beauty is just skin deep, a lot of men are physically unable to resist the urge to stare at you and check you out from head to toe! After talking to many (and I mean many!) men of different ages, ethnicities and financial backgrounds, I learned firsthand that men –like women- belong to different age groups, have different priorities, thus act and think accordingly. Now please don’t get me wrong, my boyfriend belongs in the 20’s age group, yet acts nothing like it, so there are multiple exceptions to the rule!!
20’s men: I WANT THEM, AND I WANT THEM ALL!
This age group is more inclined to think after seeing a woman “Do I want to have sex with her?” These guys are flat out open about living a more liberal lifestyle, not particularly going out of their way to find a long-term relationship; it’s a lot about the legs, the ass and the boobs (surprisingly in that order) and developing their careers. The good news however, is that all men need to experience this phase in their lives at its fullest, as learning from experience is the ultimate glue to keeping a healthy adult relationship together. Most of the men I talked to will openly admit “the big-breasted chick with no mind of her own gets so old so quickly!” Most of the time, the transformation begins in the mid twenties, and the interest is no longer entirely geared toward looks, but trustworthiness, femininity, humor and support!
30’s men: Hi, My name is STABILITY!
Like women, men change their taste as they enter their thirties. Although looks will continue to be an integral part of the elimination process, these men are now tremendously interested in the combo women – the women that take care of their bodies, but also their mind and their soul. As most of them are accomplished in their careers, the desire to get married and procreate raises, and finding the complete packaged woman is in full swing. We have to remember as women, that men are not all that different than we are. More problems arise when we think more and more at how different we are and listen to naysayers! Of course there are differences, the same way there are differences between women of different ethnicities; that doesn’t mean however that we should put a wall up and talk so much of Mars versus Venus! Think about what you want out of a man – you want to be visually stimulated by his sexuality and looks; you want him to provide for your family, you want him to be trustworthy, respect and honor you, and make you laugh, just to name a few! Men think and want the same, but with a much simpler though process. Think about what turns you on, and think of your man that is expecting the same in return! Take care of yourself and moisturize; fix your hair before leaving home and don’t fall in the habit of the everlasting ponytail, it’s defeminizing. It takes less than one minute to cover under circles or blemishes and put one coat of lip gloss. Do it every day, these are the bare minimum essentials and you will feel even more beautiful and sexy. Eat healthy and take care of your body, be active, you’ll be happier! As we expect our men to live at a certain standard, or appeal to us in a certain way, they expect the same from us!
40’s men: YOU HAD ME @ COMPANIONSHIP
For the men in this age group looks are still very important (then again, even at 50, 60 and 70, men will always appreciate the book by its cover) however, substance is the name of the game! They want to be cared for and nurtured. They feel wiser, more successful, much more inclined toward companionship. They are organically interested in the woman’s character “is she funny, does she make me smile?” “Is she giving as much as she’s taking?” “Do I see myself with her for the next 40 years? Are we compatible?”
The man in the 40’s is far more sensitive, but simultaneously prone to mid-life crises. Just remember that their crisis needs to be understood in the same manner in which we expect them to deal with our monthly emotional rollercoaster and menopause.